Relax

I am in never ending amazement how the small things in life are the ones that you remember and that truly matter. Little things like eating a cupcake at just the perfect moment, having it rain just as you are going to sleep, or a kiss just when you are in need of one. These are all things that no one thinks of or plans. So many people out there think the important things in life are ones of possessions and labels. Ones they can purchase with money or a little slice of their soul. These things may be exciting and exhilarating at the time, but will eventually get old and monotonous. The little things will never fail you, if you are like me and try to control everything in your reach you will understand how the little, unplanned things are the only chance at spontaneity. I wish I wasn't this way, but I have learned to live with this and truly look forward to the next little thing to happen.

Reason

I am a firm believer of everything happens for a reason. If i didn't many things in my life would not make sense, or would be ridiculously hard to handle. I am also a firm believer that every person you let into your "color coded" world was also sent for a reason. Maybe it is to teach you something about the world, or maybe about yourself. Even the people that looking back are now considered "mistakes". They transformed you into the person you are today. It took me sometime to understand that the person I am today is okay. Yes, just like each and everyone else out there I have regrets, but life has no do over. " Accept the things you can not change". That is the motto of my life. It took one person to convince me of this. I doubt that person even knows what a influence they have had on me. Let this be a life lesson to you all.. Don't think that the small things don't matter, they can mean the world to someone else.